What if we treated envy as a powerful emotional compass rather than a problem and a failing?
Envy isn't a sign that you're a bad or unevolved person. It's not a psychological mistake.
It's a unique emotional compass that points toward the life we each believe we are supposed to create.
The problem is, most of us are too busy yelling at ourselves for "comparing or despairing" to notice the data our envy is offering us.
For more on why it's important to learn from rather than condemn your envy, check out my article Envy is a Feature, Not a Bug.